Powerful words when you're wondering whether to date that person. You sort of feel attracted to them but there's a few red flags waving around in the air as well.
Instead of expending energy in an attempt to give your connection an explanation or a title, perhaps just enjoy it, ride it out and see what happens.
That doesn't mean you can't ask questions. Ask a million questions. Two million. If they have nothing to hide, they'll answer happily. If there's something to hide, the opposite.
But trust your instinct, listen to your body, and accept when it tells you that you've crossed that particular finishing line.
But while it's happening, enjoy. Experience, savour, experiment, learn, grow.
And be happy.